Saturday, December 10, 2005

SERIEDADE E FALTA DE ESPÍRITO

Em minha tese de doutorado disse, de certa forma, de modo educado, elegante e sutil (ou seja, em formato acadêmico) que psicólogo não pode deixar de ser quem ele é. Autenticidade e espontaneidade responsáveis são talvez rincões privilegiados para a saúde mental, seja no plano do umbigo ou do rebanho. Sempre tive asco por psicólogos que fazem o tipo comedido, equilibrado. Sim, claro, algumas pessoas sempre foram assim.
Mas ninguém é tão sério assim. A seriedade, quando elevada a parâmetro primordial de tudo o que existe, é um atraso de vida. Não suporto gente séria, ou que se leva demais a sério. Trabalhar de modo engajado, envolver-se com alguém, amar, honrar compromissos, preocupar-se também com o bem-estar dos outros, não exclui o riso nem a auto-ironia. Digo “auto-ironia”, porque antes de sermos irônicos, devemos ser capazes de ironizar a nós mesmos. Ironia sem auto-ironia pode ser somente agressão.
Psicólogo que obedece ao estereótipo de resolvido (diga-se, excessivamente ponderado, discreto, sem graça) está perdendo a oportunidade de uma vida mais saudável. “É anti-ético”, disse uma vez um colega de profissão, bêbado. Concordo plenamente. Além de enquadrar sua própria existência na pobreza de espírito do estereótipo, tripudia, goza da cara de quem não é capaz de tal mediocridade e patologia.
Como diz uma colega minha que adora dançar e cantar sozinha, na rua ou em público: uma vida sem alegria não tem sentido. E talvez nem mesmo valha a pena. As pessoas que fazem o tipo sério demais, geralmente estão se escondendo, se defendendo.
E ainda, indiretamente, reprimem uma certa dose de abençoada e esclarecida loucura. Seriedade em excesso é burrice, dogmatismo. Não duvida de si mesmo, porque se leva demais a sério. E não satisfaz, oprime. Porque não dá férias ao pensamento, soltando a imaginação. Não transita. É sem movimento, sem graça. Não percebe que a vida também é jogo e faz-de-conta. Espirituoso é aquele que tem senso de humor ou que cultiva o espírito.
Seriedade demais é deixar o espírito morrer de fome.

56 comments:

nadja soares said...

já vc tem um banquete completo à sua frente!
linda tese.
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beijo

Anonymous said...

NADJA, MAS NAO POSSO NEGAR QUE MUITA COISA TB ME TIRA DO SERIO... BJS

Anonymous said...

Muito bom! Concordo com seu ponto de vista, as pessoas buscam se enquadrar em padrões impostos pelas sociedades e esqueçem de serem espontâneas consigo mesmas.

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O que eu não gosto em pessoas serias em exesso é que parecem artificiais...
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